art.love.tears.

kadang cinta hadir mula dari kata-kata.ya.ayat manis.dan akhirnya membuahkan titisan yg xternilai yg juga xterjaga.dan ya.itu cinta.

Monday, April 18, 2011

How to be sweet

Every body likes company of a sweet natured person. In today’s fast paced and competitive environment every one seems to be selfish. No one has time for others. But such a scenario at times, especially in the long run can lead to frustration and irritation.
A helping hand, few kind words and some happy moments together can actually liven up a person’s live.
It’s a very satisfying feeling if you could become the cause somebody‘s joy. It is really easy. All you need to do is to be sweet to others. Following are some of the tips that will help you understand how you can actually be sweet to others and win their hearts:
Instructions
1. The first thing you need to do is to keep yourself happy. Avoid negative thinking that make you jaded and depressed. Do things that make you happy and help you to release your frustrations. Do what you enjoy doing most like writing, reading, gardening or any other activity that turns you on.

2. Give a good smile whenever you meet somebody. A smile is very valuable, without costing you anything; it can actually create positive vibes around you. It is always nice to see a smiling face, hence try to smile as much as you can.

3. Watch positive shows and listen to upbeat music that could brighten your outlook for the day.

4
. Do not forget to call or message your friends who miss school. It is always good to hear from friends that they miss your presence. You can also send little cards or emails to your friends for no reason. This will be a pleasant surprise for your friends that they will appreciate.

5.
Try to maintain a caring attitude towards your partner. Never take your partner for granted. Instead make him/her feel that you appreciate them for all that they do and that you like their presence.

6.
Be helpful. Make sure you help people when they are in need.

7.
Be confident whatever you do. You can actually be sweet to others only if you could approach them and make them feel better with your presence. For this, you have to confident about yourself so that you are not hesitant in your approach.

8
. Always remember the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. Think how you would like to be treated in certain situations and make sure that you treat others in the same way just as you expect from them.

Tip to Remember
Being sweet is good but make sure you are not being taken for granted.
People may try to take undue advantage of your sweet nature. So, stand your ground and make boundaries to ensure people know their limits and deal with you in the correct manner.

untitled

you've presented your hug
and i show my kisses

you've lean on my heart
and i swept away your tears

how far i go
you hold my hands
how hard i felt
you lend me your words

you've been by me
you've keen on me
and you've lived in me

oh please
be the pencil on my sheet
and be the sun on my rain

our love is strong
you will always be the love in me
i love you


puzzle

you've been playing puzzle since yesterday
is it fit
or is it not
you've puzzle with my heart
sometimes it fit
but sometimes it is not
you keep coming to make them fit
and yes!
i do fit in you
then you puzzle them back
and puzzle my heart
and now
they fall into pieces
where i myself
can even pick a piece
to make a heart

your smile

baby you do have 6 smiles


yes you do

1 is when you are laughing with your friends

1 is when you are mad but you still want to please me

1 is when you are sad but you are keeping them

1 is when you enjoy making fun of me

1 is when i said i love you

and the greatest was

the smile when you are leaving me


i miss you..... 

the waiting

could you let me be by your side?
oh please.....
i promise i will love you
i promise i would not burden 
you can be with her
but please....
say you do love me
just pretend that you love me
i beg you
leave me when she is aside
and love me when she's gone
i just cant care about anything else
but you.



Friday, February 11, 2011

flirting tips :D

this is good!
check it out  ^_^


p/s : for singles only :)



Flirting is not rocket science. It is simply a common sense method of letting people know you’re available without being tacky or obnoxious. AND… if done properly, it is your best chance at snagging your future partner! So, get ready to demystify the art of flirting with these five fabulous flirting tips. Practice your new moves on the object of your desire this weekend…


1: Be Sincere
If you’re going to flirt, you need to be real about it. Anyone can spot a fake a mile away. If you’re feeling insecure about your flirting skills, don’t start with your secret crush since the 10th grade. Begin in a situation you are most comfortable with. If you’re going to pay compliments to someone, be sincere about them. Really mean what you are saying and your results will be well worth the effort.

2: Smile
A smile is the simplest form of flattery. It shows that you are genuinely interested in the other person, and for that one single moment they are the only thing on your mind. Never underestimate the power of a smile.

3: Touch
Touch is an obvious sign of interest. Used correctly it can be a subtle way of getting a person’s undivided attention. Rest a hand on their arm or on their knee when you are talking. Engage in activities that promote touch, such as dancing. Just be careful not to appear too flirtatious. The last thing you want to do is send the wrong signals.

4: Hold Eye Contact
How do you make the object of your affection weak in the knees? Hold that meaningful gaze for just a few seconds longer than normal. Show them you’re not one to turn away from something great!

5: Be Interested In Them
Want to know if they are worthy of your undivided attention? Find out more by asking them open-ended questions about themselves. Show off your flirting skills by showing them you are actually listening to what they are saying.

Bonus Tip:
Don’t forget to show your appreciation for the person spending time with you. Always thank the person you are with, and let them know if you had a good time with them. A little politeness goes a long way to making you the next catch of the day.

hey!!
did you get it??
im tryin to flirt with you :)
lembab!